From the Edmonds Mayor: My favorite column…

Dave Earling

Recently, while traveling to Washington, D.C. on city business, I struggled to begin “a next column.” I decided to read some of my past columns for a new thought or two. I came across a column written in April 2015, however, which has special meaning to me and is my favorite. I thought re-sharing the column amidst the holidays would have meaning…

Personal Reflections on Days Gone By…

We all have favorite remembrances from days gone by, favorite family members, and special occasions and people that we hold close in our memories. That is to say, all of us have built our own personal history which we cherish, sometimes share, and sometimes keep to ourselves or share with just a few special friends.

We can all recall special events and people which have inspired and shaped our lives. Those few people who have dramatic influence on our thinking and provide important lessons which influence us long after the time we have contact with them.

For me it could be my music teachers: Sherm Rhodes, my first trumpet teacher; C. Oliver Fuller, my high school band director; Howard Deming who directed the best college brass choir in the Northwest and in which I was privileged to play principle trumpet; or Bill Cole, my final trumpet teacher, my true inspiration in conducting, who taught me how John Phillip Sousa really wanted his marches played!

They all taught me the importance of ensemble balance, to listen top to bottom of the instruments in the conductor score, the importance to have all instruments “sing” through their instrument, to be in total command of the stage when conducting and to give the students in the ensemble, and the audience, the best musical experience possible.

My second and final list is pretty short… my parents George and Marie Earling! Ah yes, and I am an only child.  As with many of you, my parents profoundly shaped my life. Both of them were from blue collar backgrounds. My father did not finish the 8th grade and yet was one of the wisest people I have ever known. A commercial painter, standing 6-foot-4-inches and well-muscled, he was an imposing figure and highly principled.

My mother was a traditional “housewife”, with a high school education, who worked part time at a grocery store and was totally devoted to her family. As an example, she lived for the moment each day when my father would walk through the door from work. Yes, far from the evolving role of today’s women, but she had a very strong personality.

As with many parents, my parents wanted to provide opportunities for me to improve over what they perceived as their “station.” They encouraged me in music in spite of a rocky start – you see I wasn’t very good in the beginning. But with private lessons and a newer trumpet things dramatically changed. They wanted me to pursue higher education and helped financially as they could. In my pursuit of all of those opportunities, they were always there.

If there was a musical performance, whether elementary through university or when I taught at Shoreline Community College, they were always there… always. They cared and wanted me to know it. I shall always treasure the memory of my father, even though he was very ill, coming to his final concert before he died. Their sheer devotion was, and is, a constant inspiration to me to this day.

All of you have those special relationships, which inspire and give definition to your lives and I’m sure you have thoughts along the same lines as those I have shared.

I believe we better understand ourselves if we reflect on those who have influenced us, to help move us if you will, to become the person we are today. The people listed above are pieces of my history. Putting names and faces to those important pieces of history remind us all of who we are and who we might be.

— By Dave Earling, Edmonds Mayor

2 Replies to “From the Edmonds Mayor: My favorite column…”

  1. Thank you for those beautiful words Dave. It’s been a long time since I lived in Edmonds but I have such wonderful memories of the people I befriended there. You are one of them.
    I echo your sentiments as I honor a very important person, role model, and inspiration from my Edmonds days: Rock Roth. I learned of his passing long after it happened, or I would have been there to honor such a special man. He was very important to me. Thank you for this opportunity to acknowledge him, you, and all my other dear friends from Edmonds. It truly is a special place.


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